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Finding the Perfect Engagement Ring

on Oct 10, 2014 3:17 PM
Finding the perfect engagement ring

The Ultimate Guide to the Perfect Proposal: Part 1 of 3

Finding a ring shouldn't be harder than finding a partner.

Whether you choose the perfect engagement ring all on your own, get a few subtle "hints" from your partner or visit a jeweler together to pick out your favorite, you want to be armed with plenty of information before making the big purchase. Read on to learn how to find the engagement ring for you.

Finding the Perfect Engagement Ring

1. Popular Diamond Shapes

And you thought you were finished with geometry after high school. One of the first decisions you and your partner need to make is what shape of stone you like best.

From traditional round cuts to the unique pear-shaped stone, there's a cut to match every personality.

If you're curious, here's a chart of popular diamond shapes.

Popular diamond shapes

2. Be Brilliant

The cut, clarity and color of the stone impacts how brilliant it appears. Brilliance, in relation to diamonds, is the amount of light that is returned to the eye from both internal and external surfaces. This is what makes a great diamond sparkle from across the room!

A well-cut diamond, with many, very specific facets will give off a more brilliant reflection than a poorly cut diamond. The round brilliant cut is famous for its 58 facets designed to yield the maximum amount of light reflection.

A diamond's clarity also plays a huge part in its sparkle factor. Clarity is affected by any characteristics created within the stone when formed by nature or as a result of the cutting process. Internal spots or lines are called inclusions, which can interfere with light attempting to pass through. Clarity is graded on a scale of Imperfect (I) to Flawless (Fl), gaining more brilliance as it climbs the scale.

The last factor to affect the appearance of a diamond is the color. While colored diamonds, or fancies, are gaining in popularity, the traditional "colorless" diamond is still number one. Color grading begins with the near colorless D, E or F and runs all the way down to Z, appearing more yellow the farther down the alphabet you go.

3. Ready, Get Set

Setting refers to the metal framework in which the stone is mounted. The same diamond shape in a traditional four-prong setting versus a modern bezel setting can create an entirely different tone for a ring.

Getting the right combination is essential to finding the ring that best suits your partner's personality.

4. Wedding Band Metals

Just when you thought you had it all figured out, you have to decide which metal to choose for the band as well!

Platinum is a great hypoallergenic choice because it is especially pure. Gold is less durable, but comes in a variety of colors, which have become popular as of late.

While gold and platinum are the two most popular options, the choices don't end there. Some couples choose palladium, which has a greyer hue than platinum, and some are going eco-friendly with a recycled metal band!

Engagement Ring Trends

Now that you're thoroughly overwhelmed with our crash course on engagement ring basics, The Knot has some current trends that might help send you down the right path to the perfect proposal!

There's a "perfect" ring out there for everyone. With the proper considerations, you'll make smart and savvy jewelry purchases. And don't be afraid to ask your jeweler for help!

Read more:
Part 2 - The Little Known Way to Ruin the Perfect Proposal
Part 3 - 10 Dos and Don'ts to Planning the Perfect Proposal


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